Stepping forward into the next stage


Hola Beautiful Soul

I have been reflecting on how hard we are on ourselves. Or more appropriately, how hard I used to be on me... I know I am not alone! Often the first person that we judge or criticise when things seem to be going wrong is the very person who is experiencing the perceived wrongdoing.

Isn’t it interesting how we have arrived at that space. A space of not always trusting ourselves. A space where we can feel anything but safe by what we are experiencing on the outside. And yet... our behaviour – if we are blaming ourselves – only compounds this.

When did the idea of a best friend become an external one rather than an internal one?

What if you chose to take on this role yourself? Actively chose to be the one to support yourself. Even if, lots of the time, you didn’t even know what that looked like. And certainly not at first.

Like any new idea we feel drawn to it can take time for its effects to be felt. Time to recognise that it is working. And the ways in which that might be... Maybe a greater sense of certainty. However small. Maybe a greater sense of safety. Through a softening of a tendency to judge. Maybe a greater degree of happiness. For we stop blaming ourselves.

I have recognised through my ongoing journey of personal growth and development – this is what real transformation looks like. As much as epiphanies and sudden forward motion are real, most of the work is done in the trenches. The unglamorous route of never giving up on yourself. No matter how hard it gets.

Real growth is based on making simple choices through awareness over and over again.

As we cycle through more external change, energetic and otherwise, one of the most powerFULL things we can do is come to our own aid. To befriend ourselves. To recognise we are not the enemy. Instead, if we allow ourselves to, we might just recognise and realise that there is a wise and powerFULL guide residing inside.

Blessèd Be.

If you've been reading my newsletter for a while and it keeps drawing your attention — is there something here that's nourishing your soul or calling for your deeper attention? Do you feel safe, heard and seen? And at least partially soothed within from all that is going on without.

This, Dear One, is a snapshot of how life can be more of the time. A space where you truly get to be you in a whole new way. A way in which you can express yourself authentically without fear of any kind. A space where you recognise the truth of who you are.

How ever life has played out up until this point, you have a choice how it will play out next. One of the most powerful phases of my own personal transformation was catapulted forwards the day I really got that I had a choice about everything.

And one of the greatest aspects of choice is recognising that I can choose things that support me right now, as well as who I wish to become. Even if I don't know exactly what that looks like. Especially then.

It's easy to doubt yourself. To question what is right for you. This is where trust comes in — and if it's something you're not comfortable with or feel unsure about, what can you do?

This is the invitation to move out of that big, beautiful overthinking head of yours and down into your heart that is crying out to be heard. If it's time to experience more of this, I can help you get out of your head and into your heart — to feel more and think less.

If you're ready to feel more and think less, reply yes to this email and I'll be in touch.

Community Connection

Thank you to those of you who heard the call of the Dragons and joined me for last week’s gathering on the New Moon. A most auspicious planetary alignment that will continue to ripple out for many months to come.

The transformational healing power of these sessions is delivered through light language. This bypasses the thinking mind, allowing the healing codes to be directly received by the subconscious.

If you feel called to the latest recording or any of the previous ones, you’ll find them here.

Goddess Hour returns next week. Always a beautiful evening, it has become a deeply loving space cultivated over time by all those that attend. Each session there is an intuitively guided theme, always perfect for those that are drawn. Proving to me, in my own moments of doubt, what a powerFULL way this is to both live and work. If you listen to your own intuition, you’ll know if you’re meant to be there. Here’s your link. Wednesday 29th April, 8pm BST, £23.

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I realised on Friday that I didn’t have many photos to share with you this week. I wondered what I was going to do. Whether I was going to go and take some. Innocent enough, except for the internal narrative. For I was wanting to please, to provide, to over provide. Behaviour that derails our inner peace until we become aware.

Today there is calm. Knowing that whatever I share with you is more than OK. That if you are only here for the photos then you’re probably in the wrong place.

Earlier this week I took myself to one of my favourite spots. Somewhere that shone out to me from the map days after I arrived. I haven’t been here a lot. I visit from time to time when I am called. I’ve even had a date here! It’s a space that feels good and I have learnt to listen when I hear the call.

This is where power lies – recognising what we need and providing it for ourselves.

May you find a whole new state of awareness to support yourself. One in which you recognise your inherent worth. One in which you recognise how deserving you are. And one in which you make supportive choices. You know the ones, the ones best friends do...

I am radiating JoY and positivity your way.

Sending SO much LOVE from my Heart to Yours

Melody Jane Xxx

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